nice title huh? ermm...well u have to attend this kind of courses once u are getting married. n everyone does know it because its compulsory for those who are getting married in Malaysia.(Undang2 msia ikut jelah.huhu). and i never thought i would be here this soon. too soon.err but not that soon. (duhh,tasnim u are not that younger anymore okey) huhu i found that this 'stuff' not that bad. its only 1 hour for each slot n u have like 11 slots for 2 days. yes eleven slots.hoho happy listening.haha (orang laen smua da amek dah...ak ja y thegeh-hegeh baru nk amek..huhu) but i thought its quite stringent here. failure to fulfill the task u have to replace the slot, otherwise the 'sijil' will not be given.hurm...
ps: i tell u what, u cannot find the super frigging cheapest fee except here, RM50. huhu
Assalamualaikum all bloggers, readers err stalkers as well.....ermmm
dont laugh at me once u read my post. yes im putting this post purposely coz now im in a league.huhu its called 'marriage league'. yes, im getting married. hurm....why? never ask me why. it just that i am getting married.huhu i am way too busy doing preparation here n there n all of sudden i found this. so i wanna share with u guys because its kinda admonition for me as im in my league now. urm...
Lets share together.......
Kalau diajukan soalan kepada setiap manusia, adakah mahu berkahwin?
Jawapannya sudah tentu ‘ya’. Mungkin ketika ini ada yang sedang dilamun cinta, ada yang sudah bertunang dan akan melangsungkan perkahwinan mereka tidak lama lagi.
Perkahwinan merupakan satu impian setiap diri manusia terutamanya mereka yang sudah bertunang. Membina mahligai perkahwinan sememangnya sesuatu yang harus difikirkan dengan serius kerana ia disifatkan sebagai satu peristiwa yang berlaku sekali seumur hidup.
Saya selalu memikirkan persiapan diri dari sudut fizikal sahaja, tetapi saya terlupa bahawa persiapan diri dari sudut rohani adalah paling utama sekali. Kerana persiapan rohanilah akan membentuk satu keluarga idaman, mawaddah serta sakinah sehingga ke syurga kelak.
Yaallah.. Aku terleka dan terlupa..
Cinta, kalau benar cinta, mesti hendak bersama ke syurgaNya. Apa-apa yang membawa ke nerakaNya, itu bukan cinta. Jadi bagaimanakah menjadikan perkahwinan itu sampai ke syurga atau bercinta sampai syurga.
Saya kongsikan sedikit persiapan diri sebelum aku terima nikahnya :
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1. Adakah saya sentiasa memastikan solat fardu lima waktu saya cukup?
2. Adakah Saya menjadikan solat duha sebagai satu kezaliman?
3. Adakah saya membaca al-quran sekerap yang mungkin?
4. Adakah saya selalu menghadirkan diri ke kuliah-kuliah agama?
5. Adakah saya mengamalkan zikir pagi dan petang (al-ma’thurat) seperti Rasullullah?
6. Adakah saya sering memperbanyakkan selawat ke atas nabi?
7. Adakah saya membaca bahan bacaan yang memberikan kefahaman dalam agama?
8. Adakah saya melazimi puasa isnin dan khamis?
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Bagi saya, inilah dia yang sepatutnya kita ada dan persiapkan dan didahulukan.
Jika ini semua selesai dilakukan sebelum ke alam baru, Maka berkahwinlah! Jika belum maka muhasabahlah diri kita agar tidak menjadi fitnah dimasa hadapan kita kelak.
Persiapan sebelum kahwin yang sebenar pada saya adalah persediaan diri, persiapan emosi, peningkatan kematangan, pemantapan ibadah dan usaha untuk mempersiapkan diri dalam hal kewangan.
Itulah dia persediaan sebelum berkahwin!
Orang yang benar bersiap akan pasangannya, akan membuat persedian diri seterusnya meletakkan target bila walimahnya.
Orang yang benar bersiap akan pasangannya, akan berkenalan dan merapatkan diri dengan ayah dan ibu bakal isterinya.
Semoga video pendek diatas dapat memberikan semangat untuk berubah.
Buat mereka dan tidak lupa diri ini juga mengingatkan bahawa ketika mana ingin mendirikan melangkah ke alam perkahwinan. Janganlah asyik leka dengan persiapan majlis sahaja. Tapi ingatlah yang lebih utama. Persiapan diri dengan ilmu dan amal agar diri sentiasa terbimbing dalam melayari bahtera rumahtangga kelak.
ermm......i was a bit depressed when i read this. i just dont know why. maybe because of lack of preparation..i mean mental n spiritual preparation cause i am moving to next phase of life.am i ready enough? huhu T_T
So many things i wanna say n write..it just dat i dun have time n courage as well to dash it off..being a teacher is not dat easy.its like u have to work like 24/7.hurmm... So many things happened last few months...my eday, my bday, my wday..oh god im so darn tired.this is so new for me. Everything happens sooo freaking fast...hurm
When you realized why you got sick in the first place...
again......i hate when it drops because of man...oh teardrops, please do not fall down...stay at where u r...i just need time:( im just too shocked of what had happened today. when i start crying, it took me days or maybe weeks to recover. i just need time to heal. T_T
Monday, August 27, 2012
A woman's du'a for her future husband ♥
O Allah! Please grant me the one Who will be the garment for my soul Who will satisfy half of my deen And in doing so make me whole
Make him righteous and on your path In all he'll do and say And sprinkle water on me at Fajr Reminding me to pray
May he earn from halal sources And spend within his means May he seek Allah's guidance always To fulfill all his dreams
May he always refer to Qur'an and the Sunnah as his moral guide May he thank and appreciate Allah For the woman at his side
May he be conscious of his anger And often fast and pray Be charitable and sensitive In every possible way
May he honor and protect me And guide me in this life And please Allah! Make me worthy to be his loving wife
And finally, O Allah! Make him abundant in love and laughter In taqwa and sincerity In striving for the hereafter!
May Allah grant all the Muslim sisters with such husbands... Ameen ya rab! :) ♥
I tried to be perfect But nothing was worth it I don't believe it makes me real I thought it'd be easy But no one believes me I meant all the things I said
If you believe it's in my soul I'd say all the words that I know Just to see if it would show That I'm trying to let you know That I'm better off on my own
This place is so empty My thoughts are so tempting I don't know how it got so bad Sometimes it's so crazy That nothing can save me But it's the only thing that I have
If you believe it's in my soul I'd say all the words that I know Just to see if it would show That I'm trying to let you know That I'm better off on my own
On my own
I tried to be perfect It just wasn't worth it Nothing could ever be so wrong It's hard to believe me It never gets easy I guess I knew that all along
If you believe it's in my soul I'd say all the words that I know Just to see if it would show That I'm trying to let you know That I'm better off on my own
life is about choosing. u have a lot of choices yet u have no choice. there are a lot of choices along your road but in the end........that choices choose u. after being sick of whatever u'r up to, eventually...this is it..this is what u are n he is your destiny. belaja utk terima qada n qadar.T_T u never knew it until u do feel it! ;(
I was waiting for so longFor a miracle to comeEveryone told me to be strongHold on and don’t shed a tear Through the darkness and good timesI knew I’d make it throughAnd the world thought I had it allBut I was waiting for you Hush, nowI see a light in the skyOh, it’s almost blinding meI can’t believeIf I’ve been touched by an angel with love Let the rain come down and wash away my tearsLet it fill my soul and drown my fearsLet it shatter the walls for a new sunA new day has come, oh Where it was dark now there’s lightWhere there was pain now there’s joyWhere there was weakness, I found my strengthAll in the eyes of a boy Hush, nowI see a light in the skyOh, it’s almost blinding meI can’t believeIf I’ve been touched by an angel with love Let the rain come down and wash away my tearsLet it fill my soul and drown my fearsLet it shatter the walls for a new sun A new day has Let the rain come down and wash away my tearsLet it fill my soul and drown my fearsLet it shatter the walls for a new sunA new day has come, oh Hush, nowWell I see a light in your eyesAll in the eyes of the boyI can’t believeIf I’ve been touched by an angel with loveI can’t believeIf I’ve been touched by an angel with love
Yaumul Jum'ah Sayyidul Ayyam ('',)
"Hari Jumaat itu adalah penghulu segala hari..."
Semoga Jumaat ini menjadikan kita seorang Hamba Allah yang lebih baik, lebih bertaqwa, lebih menyantuni, lebih berjaya dan lebih cemerlang...DUNIA & AKHIRAT!
ameennnn!
somehow 'peristiwa minyak cap kapak' comes across in my mind. huhu just imagine at that time all u need is only that thing because u are kind of bus-boozy huhu and all of sudden someone came and gave u that 'minyak cap kapak'. of nowhere and no expectation u'll be the only one who cried in the bus because u were soooooooooo touched of his deed. ;( ermm.... god bless him and his kindness. T_T how i wish.........=(
huhu after the match, i heard a lot of people go and buy ice-cream.huhu in supporting Media Prima Bhd's "Dream of Gold" initiative, Baskin-Robbins will give out free ice-cream nationwide IF Malaysia wins her first-ever gold at the London 2012 Olympics. the ice-creams will be available on Aug 8 at all Baskin-Robbins outlets nationwide from 8 pm till 10 pm. every Malaysians is entitled to one scoop of the ice-cream. though, for me, its not all about the best-tasting ice-cream in the world, its about our very first Olympics gold. a gold too farrr...huhu =( (still in dissappointed mode.huhu) i just cant stop myself. people are talking about him everywhere today. television, radio, fb, twitter and whats not. they are talking about his nail-biting losing in the men's badminton singles final. he fought valiantly, but in the end, ottoke ;( the gold proved just too elusive for him. the gold was snatched by China's badminton superstar Lin Dan. as expected. aaaa mencik!mencik! But, still he has been hailed a hero by Malaysians who rallied around their champion. Congrats a bunch to him!! still we love our Malaysia number one badminton's superstar LCW ;)
hehehehe
***teringat zaman kecik2 dlu, suke sgt bt eskem malaysia...huhu perisa milo wajib..haha tp perisa bandung pon suke sbb kaler cantek.hahaha***
Assalamualaikum wa rahmatulahi wa Barakatuh dear readerss!!
RAMADHAN KAREEM...
im here to wish you a quick Ramadhan Mubarak to you all and your families and friends and forget-not my loved ones ('',) ! May Allah SWT make this Ramadan a blessed month for us and let it be a life-changing one in which we will find peace and tranquility in our heart.
May the festival of lights be the harbinger of joy n prosperity. as the holy occasion of Ramadhan is here n the atmosphere is filled with the spirit of mirth n love, here is hoping this festival of beauty brings our way, bright sparkles of contentment, that stay with us through the days ahead.InsyaAllah.
dont get it wrong. b-day not stand for birth-day..its my best-day ever! July 12th, 13th, and 14th are the besssttttt days ever for me. i really really darn miss that moment. how i wish i could stop the time ;( da best thing ever happened in your life is when u spent the whole time with the person u loved most.
just as how u guys expected, another long (very long i might say..huhu) hiatus. its been ages i left my blog since the last post. i know i should be smacked for the sudden comeback and then the 'already expected' disappearance thereafter. i do apologize to him for the delay updates as he wants me to keep updating this blog.soriiii..huhu
so, this is it...soooooo many things happened during my disappearance. it is unpredictable. yes there are series of ups and downs, which i presume u are able to see that some posts are about some crazy stuff and some are just downright depressing. inconsistency. the day officially wraps up with some reflections. words, thought, action; they linger in my mind.
im
facing lots of calamities. just that the impact is aggravated with this myriad
of feelings. it has been many years that we've continued to stay strong. there
were times i felt jaded that i didnt want to give anymore. there were also
times where i convinced myself to bounce back by Faith. Faith is simple but
rather complicated.
i
felt rotten. inside. Brokenness, which
will haunt me so long as i exist. my worthlessness. my vulnerability. my shame.
im always stuck with predicaments that disrupt my relationship with HIM.=(
shame me ;(.........
arghh i couldnt write anymore;( it makes my tears rolling
down. i just hope for the miracle to happen....please;(
